When School Starts Again: The Hidden Emotional Toll on Moms
As the back-to-school season approaches, many mothers brace themselves—not just the kids. Beneath the excitement of new backpacks and first-day photos, a quieter emotional struggle often unfolds. Moms can find themselves wrestling with waves of anxiety and even depression as routines shift and children return to school.
The pull of separation anxiety isn't just a childhood phenomenon. Research shows that mothers with underlying anxiety or depression can find life transitions—like the start of school—particularly triggering. Maternal mental health is closely linked to parenting stress, and anxiety can heighten concerns about safety, performance, and social adjustment (The Independent, 2021). Moreover, maternal depression and anxiety have been shown to impact mother–child interactions and are associated with increased emotional and behavioral difficulties in children (BMC Public Health, 2024).
These challenges are not limited to mothers of young children. While postpartum depression affects roughly one in seven new mothers, with nearly half remaining undiagnosed, its effects can persist well beyond infancy (BMC Public Health, 2024). As children grow, milestones like starting school can resurface feelings of loss, inadequacy, or uncertainty.
The start of a school year also disrupts household rhythms. Homes that once thrived on all-day togetherness suddenly fall silent, and moms may find themselves second-guessing: Is my child safe? Am I doing enough? These thoughts can spiral into persistent worry or low mood, especially for those already vulnerable to anxiety or depression.
External pressures—work schedules, social comparisons on social media, and guilt over “letting go”—can compound these emotions. Even routine school events like drop-off or parent–teacher conferences can carry unexpected emotional weight, sometimes triggering tears or feelings of isolation.
What Can Help?
- Normalize the feelings: Recognizing that many mothers experience similar emotions can help reduce isolation.
- Reach out: Schedule check-ins with other parents. Peer support can help regulate stress.
- Create rituals: Daily “share your day” traditions strengthen connection and reduce anxiety.
- Seek professional help when needed: Persistent sadness, anxiety, or functional impairment are valid reasons to speak with a healthcare provider.
Sending a child back to school may be a rite of passage for kids, but for mothers, it can be laden with emotions. Acknowledging those feelings—and treating them with care—can make all the difference in easing the transition from summer freedom to the structure of the school year.
References:
The Independent. (2021). Parents’ anxiety about children starting school is real – and it’s on the rise. Retrieved from https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/health-and-families/anxiety-children-parents-school-skip-health-b2807905.html
BMC Public Health. (2024). Prevalence and risk factors of maternal depression and anxiety. https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-024-18502-0
As the back-to-school season approaches, many parents are focused on school supplies, schedules, and routines. But for children and teens struggling with attention, focus, or behavior regulation, it’s also the ideal time to consider evaluation for Attention-Deficit Disorder and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADD / ADHD). ADD / ADHD affects approximately 9.8% of children and adolescents in the U.S., with symptoms often becoming more noticeable or problematic during transitions—such as the return to school after summer break (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2023). These symptoms may include difficulty focusing, excessive talking or interrupting, trouble following instructions, and poor time management. Early identification through formal ADD / ADHD testing can make a significant difference in a child’s academic and social development. Comprehensive testing typically includes clinical interviews, behavior rating scales completed by parents and teachers, and—when appropriate—computerized attention assessments or cognitive testing. When a diagnosis is confirmed, evidence-based treatment can begin. Most treatment plans include a combination of behavioral therapy, academic accommodations (such as 504 plans or IEPs), parent coaching, and sometimes medication. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, treatment that includes both behavior therapy and, when indicated, stimulant or non-stimulant medications is the most effective approach for school-aged children (AAP, 2019). Starting the evaluation and treatment process before school ramps up allows families, educators, and providers to collaborate on support strategies early, and preventing academic frustration and behavioral conflicts from compounding over time. It also helps ensure that any necessary accommodations are in place before performance challenges lead to lower grades or reduced self-esteem. If you’ve noticed signs of inattention, impulsivity, or hyperactivity in your child, don’t wait. Testing and treatment during the early weeks of the school year can provide clarity, structure, and a path forward for your child to thrive—both in and out of the classroom. References : 1)Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2023). Data and Statistics About ADHD. Retrieved from: https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/adhd/data.html 2)American Academy of Pediatrics. (2019). Clinical Practice Guideline for the Diagnosis, Evaluation, and Treatment of ADHD in Children and Adolescents. Pediatrics, 144(4), e20192528. https://doi.org/10.1542/peds.2019-2528
As the days grow longer and the sun begins to warm the earth, many people experience a noticeable lift in mood and energy. Springs arrival can have a powerful impact on mental health especially for those managing conditions like depression, anxiety, and seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Sunlight and Serotonin One of the biggest mental health benefits of spring is increased exposure to natural sunlight. Sunlight boosts the brains production of serotonin, a neurotransmitter that contributes to feelings of well-being and happiness. More sunlight often means improved mood, better sleep, and more energy factors that can positively influence those living with depression or anxiety. A Natural Antidote to Seasonal Depression Seasonal Affective Disorder is a type of depression linked to the changing seasons, often worsening in fall and winter due to lower light levels. When spring arrives, the increased daylight can relieve SAD symptoms significantly. According to the American Psychiatric Association, many people with SAD begin to feel better in the spring without any change in their treatment plan thanks largely to the suns return. Motivation and Activity Levels Warmer temperatures and sunnier skies encourage people to get outside, engage in physical activity, and reconnect with nature. Regular movement, especially outdoors, is strongly linked to reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety. Activities like walking, gardening, or simply spending time at the park can have lasting mental health benefits. Caution: Spring Isn't a Cure-All It's important to note that not everyone feels better in the spring. For some, spring can bring increased anxiety or pressure to feel better when they are still struggling. Additionally, those with bipolar disorder may be at higher risk for mood shifts as seasons change, and increased light exposure can, in some cases, trigger manic episodes. As always, mental health should be approached with a personalized and professional care plan. Final Thoughts Spring can be a season of renewal not just for nature, but for mental health as well. If you've been feeling low through the winter months, now is a great time to reconnect with your provider, consider adjusting your routine, and take advantage of the seasons natural benefits. And if symptoms persist, don't hesitate to reach out mental health care is available year-round.
Daylight savings time (DST) is a widely practiced time adjustment aimed at maximizing daylight hours. However, the biannual shift can have significant implications for mental health, particularly for individuals receiving mental health care. The disruption to circadian rhythms, sleep patterns, and overall well-being necessitates that mental health professionals and patients alike prepare for the potential psychological effects. Circadian Rhythms and Sleep Disruptions One of the most immediate effects of DST is its disruption to circadian rhythms the internal clock that regulates sleep-wake cycles. The sudden shift, even if only by an hour, can lead to sleep deprivation, increased fatigue, and mood instability. Research has shown that sleep disturbances are directly linked to higher rates of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation (Harrison, 2013). Mental health care providers often see an uptick in symptoms among individuals with pre-existing conditions following the transition. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and Mood Changes The fall transition into standard time results in shorter daylight hours, exacerbating symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a type of depression that occurs cyclically with seasonal changes. The abrupt reduction in natural light exposure can lead to increased lethargy, decreased motivation, and mood imbalances. A study by Wehr et al. (2001) found that individuals affected by SAD are particularly vulnerable to the negative effects of DST. For patients prone to seasonal depression, mental health practitioners often recommend light therapy, adjusted medication schedules, and structured daily routines to mitigate these effects. Impacts on Mental Health Treatment Mental health care providers may also notice changes in patient engagement and treatment effectiveness during the DST transition. Sleep disruptions can decrease cognitive function, making it harder for patients to engage in therapy, retain information, and adhere to treatment plans. Additionally, the loss of daylight hours in the evening can reduce opportunities for outdoor activities, social interactions, and exercise factors crucial for maintaining mental well-being. Strategies for Mitigation To counteract the negative effects of DST, mental health professionals suggest several strategies:  Gradually adjusting sleep schedules a few days before the time change Prioritizing natural light exposure during daylight hours Maintaining consistent routines to support emotional stability Encouraging patients to track their mood and symptoms for early intervention As research continues to highlight the mental health impacts of DST, mental health professionals must take proactive steps to support their patients through these transitions. References Harrison, Y. (2013). 'The impact of sleep loss on cognitive performance and mood.' Sleep Medicine Clinics, 8(4), 517-527. Wehr, T. A., Sack, D. A., & Rosenthal, N. E. (2001). 'Seasonality and affective disorders.' Psychiatric Clinics of North America, 24(2), 275-292.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) rarely exists in isolation. Many individuals with ADHD experience co-occurring conditions such as anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, or autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Overlapping symptoms can sometimes make it challenging to identify the root cause of difficulties in daily life. However, just because symptoms seem to blend together does not mean proper diagnosis and treatment should be overlooked. In fact, comprehensive testing is more important than ever for effective care. Why Do Symptoms Overlap? The brain is complex, and many mental health conditions share common traits. For example, both ADHD and anxiety can lead to difficulty focusing. Depression and ADHD can both contribute to low motivation. Sensory sensitivities seen in ASD may also be present in individuals with ADHD. Without thorough testing, it's easy to misattribute symptoms to the wrong condition or miss an important underlying issue. A study published in The Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry found that up to 40% of individuals with ADHD also have an anxiety disorder, and nearly 30% experience depression (Pliszka, 2015). These statistics highlight why a nuanced approach to diagnosis is critical. Treating one condition while ignoring another can result in incomplete relief or worsening symptoms. The Importance of Comprehensive Testing Even if symptoms seem obvious, a detailed evaluation by a professional can clarify the full picture. Professional testing and assessments help distinguish between overlapping conditions and guide personalized treatment plans. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) emphasizes that ADHD should not be diagnosed based on symptoms alone but through comprehensive evaluations, including input from parents, teachers, and clinicians (Wolraich et al., 2019). Accurate diagnosis matters because treatment approaches can vary widely. A child with ADHD and anxiety may need a different medication or therapy strategy than a child with ADHD alone. Similarly, an adult struggling with focus due to untreated depression will not benefit from stimulant medication alone. Taking the Next Step If you or your child are struggling with focus, impulsivity, or emotional regulation, don't dismiss the importance of proper testing. Even when symptoms overlap, a careful diagnosis leads to more effective treatment and better outcomes. Our clinic specializes in comprehensive evaluations to ensure you receive the right care tailored to your unique needs. Contact us today to schedule an assessment and take the first step toward clarity and effective treatment. References: Pliszka, S. R. (2015). Comorbidity of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder with psychiatric disorder: An overview. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 44(5), 406 414. Wolraich, M. L., et al. (2019). Clinical practice guideline for the diagnosis, evaluation, and treatment of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder in children and adolescents. Pediatrics, 144(4), e20192528.
As the new year begins, many of us create resolutions to improve our physical health, career, or relationships. However, mental health an essential aspect of overall well-being is often overlooked. This year, consider setting goals that prioritize your mental health. By doing so, you'll not only enhance your emotional well-being but also build resilience to face life's challenges. Why Mental Health Goals Matter Mental health is the foundation of our ability to think, feel, and connect with others. Research shows that prioritizing mental well-being reduces stress, improves relationships, and boosts productivity (American Psychological Association, 2022). Establishing specific, actionable resolutions can empower you to manage anxiety, depression, or simply enhance your day-to-day emotional balance. Goals to Boost Your Mental Health in 2025 Practice Mindfulness Daily Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation or deep breathing into your routine. Mindfulness has been proven to reduce stress and anxiety while improving focus and emotional regulation (Kabat-Zinn, 1990). Even 5-10 minutes a day can make a significant difference. Stay Active Exercise isn't just for physical health; it's a natural mood booster. Activities like walking, yoga, or dancing release endorphins, the body's 'feel-good' chemicals. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days. Connect with Loved Ones Social support is a key factor in maintaining mental health. Schedule time to talk with friends or family, even if it's just a quick call. Building meaningful connections can help combat loneliness and promote emotional resilience. Set Boundaries Protect your mental health by saying no to commitments that overwhelm you. This allows time to recharge and focus on what truly matters. Seek Professional Support If you're struggling, consider working with a therapist. Regular sessions can help you process emotions, develop coping strategies, and set achievable mental health goals. Tracking Your Progress Write your goals down and review them regularly. Celebrate small victories, and remember, progress not perfection is the key. Final Thoughts As we step into 2025, let's prioritize mental health alongside traditional resolutions. By doing so, you'll create a year filled with growth, balance, and emotional well-being. After all, the best version of yourself starts with a healthy mind.
The holiday season is a time of year that often evokes images of family gatherings, festive decorations, and joyful celebrations. However, for many individuals, it can also bring about stress, anxiety, or feelings of loneliness. Embrace the impact the holidays can have on your mental health and focus on the positive aspects of this season while acknowledging the unique challenges. The Positive Impact of the Holidays on Mental Health The holidays present unique opportunities for connection, gratitude, and reflection, all of which can boost mental well-being: Strengthening Relationships: Gathering with loved ones can provide a sense of belonging and emotional support. Even a simple phone call to a family member or friend can help strengthen bonds and combat feelings of isolation. Practicing Gratitude: The holidays often encourage gratitude through traditions like gift-giving or reflecting on the past year. Studies have shown that practicing gratitude can increase overall happiness and improve mental health. Acts of Kindness: The spirit of giving during the holidays can boost both the giver's and the receiver's mood. Volunteering, donating to charity, or simply helping a neighbor can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Creating Joyful Memories: Engaging in holiday traditions, whether it's decorating, baking, or singing carols, can create lasting positive memories that uplift the spirit. Tips for Managing Holiday Stress While the holidays can be joyful, they also come with stressors like financial pressures, time constraints, and high expectations. Here are some tips to navigate the season healthily: Set Realistic Expectations: Focus on what truly matters to you and let go of the pressure to create a perfect holiday experience. Practice Self-Care: Prioritize sleep, nutrition, and exercise, even amidst holiday festivities. Taking time for yourself is essential. Stay Connected: Reach out to friends and family, especially if you're feeling lonely. Building connections can help alleviate holiday blues. Seek Support if Needed: If the season feels overwhelming, consider speaking with a mental health professional. Therapy or counseling can provide valuable tools to cope and thrive. Embrace the season's positives, take care of your mental health, and remember that seeking help is a sign of strength.
As Thanksgiving approaches, many of us gather around the table to express gratitude for the blessings in our lives. While this tradition is deeply rooted in our culture, science increasingly shows that practicing gratitude not just on Thanksgiving but year-round can have profound benefits for our mental health. Gratitude is more than a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It's a mindset and practice that shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have. Research has revealed that cultivating gratitude can significantly improve psychological well-being. A study published in Personality and Individual Differences found that individuals who regularly expressed gratitude experienced higher levels of happiness and lower levels of depression and stress (Wood, Joseph, & Maltby, 2008). By actively acknowledging the positives in our lives, we can foster resilience against life's challenges. The mental health benefits of gratitude extend beyond mood enhancement. Practicing gratitude has been linked to better physical health, including improved sleep quality and reduced symptoms of illness. A study conducted by the University of California, Davis, found that participants who kept a weekly gratitude journal reported fewer physical ailments and exercised more frequently than those who did not engage in gratitude practices (Emmons & McCullough, 2003). This connection underscores the mind-body link and highlights how mental well-being can positively influence physical health. Incorporating gratitude into your daily routine doesn't require grand gestures. Simple acts like keeping a gratitude journal, writing thank-you notes, or reflecting on three things you're grateful for each day can make a difference. Over time, these practices can rewire the brain to focus on positivity, reducing the impact of negative thoughts and emotions. Thanksgiving offers a perfect opportunity to kickstart or deepen your gratitude practice. As you share a meal with loved ones, consider going around the table and expressing what you're thankful for this year. By making gratitude a regular part of your life, you're not only celebrating the holiday's true spirit but also investing in your long-term mental health. This Thanksgiving, let gratitude take center stage. It's a gift you can give yourself that keeps giving long after the turkey is gone.The body content of your post goes here. To edit this text, click on it and delete this default text and start typing your own or paste your own from a different source.
As Thanksgiving approaches, many of us gather around the table to express gratitude for the blessings in our lives. While this tradition is deeply rooted in our culture, science increasingly shows that practicing gratitude not just on Thanksgiving but year-round can have profound benefits for our mental health. Gratitude is more than a fleeting feeling of thankfulness. It's a mindset and practice that shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have. Research has revealed that cultivating gratitude can significantly improve psychological well-being. A study published in Personality and Individual Differences found that individuals who regularly expressed gratitude experienced higher levels of happiness and lower levels of depression and stress (Wood, Joseph, & Maltby, 2008). By actively acknowledging the positives in our lives, we can foster resilience against life's challenges. The mental health benefits of gratitude extend beyond mood enhancement. Practicing gratitude has been linked to better physical health, including improved sleep quality and reduced symptoms of illness. A study conducted by the University of California, Davis, found that participants who kept a weekly gratitude journal reported fewer physical ailments and exercised more frequently than those who did not engage in gratitude practices (Emmons & McCullough, 2003). This connection underscores the mind-body link and highlights how mental well-being can positively influence physical health. Incorporating gratitude into your daily routine doesn't require grand gestures. Simple acts like keeping a gratitude journal, writing thank-you notes, or reflecting on three things you're grateful for each day can make a difference. Over time, these practices can rewire the brain to focus on positivity, reducing the impact of negative thoughts and emotions. Thanksgiving offers a perfect opportunity to kickstart or deepen your gratitude practice. As you share a meal with loved ones, consider going around the table and expressing what you're thankful for this year. By making gratitude a regular part of your life, you're not only celebrating the holiday's true spirit but also investing in your long-term mental health. This Thanksgiving, let gratitude take center stage. It's a gift you can give yourself that keeps giving long after the turkey is gone.
October is National Depression and Mental Health Screening Month, a time to shine a spotlight on the importance of mental health care and the powerful role screenings play in identifying conditions like depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders. Many people may struggle with their mental health without realizing it, but early detection through screening can be a crucial first step toward getting the help they need. The Importance of Mental Health Screenings Mental health screenings are simple assessments designed to help individuals identify symptoms of conditions such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, and more. These screenings are often the first step in diagnosis and can be taken online or through a healthcare provider. Various tools are widely available, including: PHQ-9 (Patient Health Questionnaire-9): A commonly used screening tool for depression, the PHQ-9 asks nine questions that assess the severity of depressive symptoms over the past two weeks. It is often used by clinicians and available online for self-assessment. GAD-7 (Generalized Anxiety Disorder-7): This screening tool focuses on symptoms of anxiety, asking seven questions about experiences like worry, nervousness, and restlessness. MDQ (Mood Disorder Questionnaire): The MDQ helps identify potential signs of bipolar disorder by screening for periods of elevated mood or irritability. PTSD Checklist (PCL-5): This screening tool is used to assess symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, asking individuals to reflect on their experiences related to trauma. MHA (Mental Health America) Online Screening Tools: Mental Health America offers free, confidential screening tools online for conditions including depression, anxiety, PTSD, and more. These screenings provide immediate feedback and suggest next steps. Just as regular physical check-ups are essential for maintaining physical health, mental health screenings offer a valuable opportunity to assess your emotional well-being and catch early warning signs of mental health issues. Left untreated, conditions like depression and anxiety can worsen over time, but early detection opens the door to treatment and recovery. Early Detection Can Save Lives Mental health conditions can manifest gradually, and their symptoms might be mistaken for regular stress or fatigue. Screenings help pinpoint these symptoms early, allowing individuals to seek support before the condition escalates. Whether you choose an in-person assessment with a healthcare provider or a confidential online tool, taking a mental health screening can be an empowering step toward better emotional health. Reducing Stigma One of the biggest obstacles to mental health care is stigma, which often prevents people from seeking help. National Depression and Mental Health Screening Month is a reminder that mental health should be treated as seriously as physical health. There's no shame in getting screened for depression, anxiety, or other conditions help is available, and it starts with taking that first step.
